If you’ve ever felt frustrated in trying to manifest what you want, you’re
not alone. Every one of us faces obstacles and blocks before what we
want actually “shows up”.
Lets review the main challenges we all face when it comes to manifesting
(and what you can do about each one of them).
(Each of these challenges are little lessons that can teach us valuable
insights about ourselves.**)
The 3 Biggest Challenges
1. When is what I want going to manifest?
This is the classic one. Our minds have been trained in a “get it now” kind
Since we were very young, we often got instant gratification for many of our
core needs. And depending on how our parents or caregivers responded to
our needs, we learned an unconscious pattern of wanting/getting that
reinforced the behavior that we felt at that young age.
Some of that behavior was appropriate then, but may no longer serve
you any longer as an adult. It takes a bit of discipline and letting go to
detach from old emotions and patterns so you can be fully present
and make new choices that help you evolve and grow.
An old proverb says:
“There is a season for everything”
It may be frustrating for the mind to admit, but the universe doesn’t
always bend to our will. But, when you set your Heart and mind to
creating what you want, and you follow that intent with love and
passion, it WILL manifest – in its own time.
We all plant many seeds, but the KEY is to nurture those seeds with
proper love and nutrients.
One of my mentors once told me:
“Whatever you set your Heart to, is already on its way…”
So, its really already here – but the mind can’t see it yet.
The key is letting go of the “when” and staying in touch with the essence
of already having it. In other words the deep faith, the *knowing* that’s
its real right now – and all that’s really required is to “see with new eyes”
as Blake once wrote.
The next biggest manifesting challenge…
2. Thinking that getting what you want will
make the pain of “not having it” go away
This one’s a bit hidden from our conscious awareness. But if you can delve
deeper than just needing something and shift to being ok whether it shows
up or not, you’re accessing a level of mastery that few humans ever reach.
Most get stuck at the “I feel pain/I need relief” level and never understand
the essence of creation itself.
But when you shift your intent from “needing something to show up” to
being able to let go of having it, you activate a higher intelligence within
This intelligence then becomes your core guide and is there to help you
in literally any situation in your life. The gifts this connection will bring
you are greater than all the “getting” or “having” will ever give you.
The faith and knowing that what you want is already manifested (and
the patience that it takes to “wait” for it to “show up”) is the key.
Here’s a couple questions to help you in this 2nd major
Is my Heart really in this?
Do I love this path?
What would I love to create most?
Ponder these whenever you face obstacles and breathe into each
of them as you listen and feel for the answer…
Here’s the 3rd challenge…
3. Am I doing something wrong?
If you ever hear or sense this message, you KNOW it’s the ego trying to pull
you off your path. Thinking you’re doing something “wrong” prevents you
from seeing the truth in your life.
Disappointment, fear, anger, envy are some of the feelings you may feel
when what you want hasn’t shown up yet.
But each of these emotions are hiding the real issue.
Yes – the real cause of frustration or feeling stuck is judgment. And it’s
ourselves who we’re really judging.
Maybe you’re not doing anything “wrong”. Maybe your Higher Self is
guiding you to a simpler way of being.
And “having” then is easy – when you are already be-ing.
If you think of the things you want most, why do you want them?
In other words, what if you already had them already?
How would you feel?
Isn’t that what you really want?
Manifesting gets easier when we step out of the way and let go.
Take time each day my friend to check in with your Heart and
your Higher Self – and let yourself manifest from your Heart.
And So It Is…
Watch for my next message on manifesting…
Blessings of Abundance to you,
P.S. – Would love your comments below…
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